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Who can be Trusted & who should be watched out for?

 Who can be Trusted & who should be watched out for?


A very intrusive question if one is on the opposite side of the same.

Let us get to the point.
1) The one who values you & respects you behind your back CAN BE TRUSTED, obviously because the respect & value they are giving is to earn your trust, nevertheless consistency matters.
2) The one who is bold enough to let you know exactly the opposite of anything & everything you are willing to hear, MUST BE TRUSTED, they might not mean to hurt you or harm you by giving you those harsh facts, again the person must not be all season critics of you.
3) YES MINISTERS are the gravediggers, anyone who is constantly agreeing to anything & everything that you say & do are your worst enemies, CANNOT BE TRUSTED, keeping them around is like feeding a snake that is growing larger enough to swallow you.
4) Then there will be those who will think for you, check upon you, understand you & are always more than willing to go that extra mile for you, TREASURE THEM, by making all these efforts they are saying it aloud that they really CARE FOR YOU. 
5) There will always be someone who is silent, but yet very loud & clear with their intentions & actions, constantly watching your back, making sure that you are doing your best & moving forward, TRUST THEM you may not regret it.
6) Contrary there will be those who constantly keep saying things to please you but their words & actions will hardly match, NEVER TRUST THEM.
7)  Then there are those who are constantly working around you to feed you with otherwise details & information about rest of them, trying to brainwash you, BEWARE OF THEM, they are not doing so to protect you but to keep you to themselves for your own benefits.
8) Those who never admit to their mistakes & wrong doings are the MOST DANGEROUS ones to be trusted ever.
9) The one who is unapologetically themselves all the time & a liar to the core of their being, CAN NEVER BE TRUSTED. There are no cures for liars, once a liar is always going to be a liar.
10) Then there are those who will always keep playing smart, for every question being asked, they replies will be only as another question, NEVER TRUST such individuals, smartness is important but horrible when some is not straight forward.
11) Watch how they treat others around them and you will know if they are trustworthy or not, those who treat people based on what they are able to & unable to get from them are NOT TRUST WORTHY.
12) Believe it or not upbringing & their background matters, there are some characteristics that individuals develop as they are growing up, that may make them display compassion, empathy, sincerity & emotional intelligence, anyone who are able to display either of it at any given point in time is having an active consciences, they can be TRUSTED.  
13) The one who lacks self confident, wavering minded individuals, who cannot make some basic decisions in their own life, no matter how simple and clear the situation is CANNOT BE TRUSTED
14) Self discipline plays a very important role in everyone's life, it is a commitment to self & a promise that one is training themselves to keep up with, such individuals can be TRUSTED.
15) Opportunistic individuals that will not miss out a chance to make their own gains at the detriment of others, & continues to do so without having any remorse cannot be TRUSTED. 
16) Everyone has to work to earn their bread, but then there are those who want to work only to earn their bread & then they practice methods to get additional income by borrowing & make more than what they are earning, so as to keep advancing in their life styles, thereby always living a life that is indebted in finances to one or many, such individuals must NEVER BE TRUSTED.
17) Then there are those who love their peace & even if they are witness to any heinous crimes, they would prefer to remain quiet, they derive pleasure in inaction rather than taking any stands, such a person must not be TRUSTED.
18) Narcissistic, that are emotional abusers, that are masters of gaslighting others, who constantly keep playing victim to their own victims in order to get what they want from them, MUST NEVER BE TRUSTED.

And more such examples can be added here, but the fact remains that no matter what we cannot continue to keep performing our duties unless we are able to take the risk of trusting others.
So trusting others is directly proportional to the confidence level of the trust giver. Moreso trust is a high order of expectations, one will trust another hoping that they will be able to hold on to it well, but then expectations are meant to yield disappointments & that one must be ready to live & continue to grow with such experiences without making it as a president to not trust others around. 

So trust anyone & everyone, but don't expect them to keep it.

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