Change the way you see yourself & you will be astonished the way now everyone sees you!

 Change the way you see yourself & you will be astonished the way now everyone sees you!

Our personal & professional lives are very complex when it comes to interacting with various individual with different perspectives & objectives.

And when we closely look into these various aspects of individual interactions we are made to understand that self evaluation is the key to every perceptional array. 

Popularly it claims that whenever things aren't going well with someone they must look within what they are lacking or not being able to accept, adapt & change.

Yes one may have to run a self check but not before you have verified & understand the following 4 tactics of people:

A) Avoidance : 

People generally avoid those around them that they are intimidated with, not literally, but yet their vision, thinking & reasoning shatters their perceptions & even if they like it or not those views presented are always hard to be ignored.

When one continues to experience such overwhelming experiences, they deploy these strategies of avoiding such people around, so that they do not have to wake up from their slumber sleeping state & do not have to change their perceptions to match with alternative reality.

So you are not avoided because you are not worth discussing or analyzing various subject matters, but rather you are avoided because you are giving them the reality check & in order not to accept the given alternative reality, they are avoiding themselves from getting into the state whereby the Self Corrections may become inevitable.

If any avoidant is avoiding you, please pity them & allow them to have the space while they are concluding the internal battle that they are fighting within themselves.

They are Avoiding themselves from acceptance, adaptability & change.

Take that as a blessing in disguise & enjoy.

You are a GEM!!!!

B) Rejection :

It is a very natural reaction when someone is presented with undisputed evidence of the alternative reality that is flourishing out of their knowledge & understanding, so the very first reaction to such an aspect of reality will be an outright rejection.

Rejection works in a very unique way.

Once something is rejected, it now becomes the responsibility of the other person to go back & do more work to gather evidence to prove their point & present their proofs against the rejections. So practically the person who brought out the new facts & evidence becomes the accused while the person who is in denial & rejection will remain at large.

Never fall victim to such absurd rejections, it is not the rejection of your fact findings, it is rather the rejection of their incompetency to update & upgrade themselves with new information on a status quo.

They will rather reject the idea of them being held responsible & accountable for the reality that is exactly opposite of how they see & want things to be.

 

Give them that opportunity to grow & arrive at the realization that it is very much possible to have a different situation or status on somethings that they are not in their control as they presumed.

By allowing them to dwell in their armor of rejection, you are already securing your well being.

You are priceless & not everyone can vibe at your level, hence as an ordinary man's reaction, they have to reject what they cannot afford.

C) Oppression & Opposition

When one avoidant & one illusionist (Rejectionist) comes to gather to form an alliance against you, it becomes an oppression.

Everyone notices that you are being avoided & hence every one who can & want will enjoy joining the camp to avoid you, whereas those who cannot avoid you have been taught how to reject you, so they too will join in the camp that is rejecting you.

All just because of the above given reasons, but yes when a group of people make a movement to avoid you & reject you, it may becomes very challenging on how to continue to remain on your path. How not to get discouraged. How not to get carried away to get things under control. How not to strive for the approvals & validation of these groups of individuals who are coming from the camps of avoidants & rejectionists.

Remember that numbers don't matter when it comes to negativity, be it one avoidant or 100, be it one rejectionist or 1000 let them rot in their sickness.

You facing any oppression or opposition is in itself an evidence that you are doing something that they are not only incapable but uneducated to have realized the importance of learning & relearning & hence when they cannot match with your intelligence, creativity, proactiveness & initiatives, the best they can do is to bring the energies of like minded people from around & post an oppression against you.

You are an intimidating indigo being, an Omega personality blended with high level of self esteem & when they cannot level up, the only option they will be left is to team up with low lives like them to pull you down.

D) Devaluing & Ill treatment

This is the most dangerous game one will want to explore, but yet most of the times it becomes inevitable for a failed avoidant, failed rejectionist & a failed oppressor to now use devaluing as the last resort for them to survive against the might Omega.

While the avoiding continues, rejection persists & oppressions organized, if somehow you were still able to make mark & bring about some significant good & constructive improvements, it now becomes an avenue for them to make sure that you do not get any credit for your work. Everyone around you with little or even no sincere contributions may continue to be celebrated but you will not be mentioned, recognized or appreciated.

Rather with every slightest of errors or mistakes from you or anyone around, it will be axed on you unfailingly. Time & again you will be reminded that you are walking on egg shell or on the sword edge, which again is to make sure that you are going to made into a failed example for everyone around.

Ill treatment is another aspect of devaluing, make everyone around you more important & valued than you & that too right in your presence, so that you are rendered useless, while those who are being made important are also made aware of how to treat you in their absence, avoiding, rejecting & oppressing. So that when they leave, they have already left behind their legacy of avoiding, rejection & oppressing with devaluing so much deep rooted in the environment that every moment every another person from either of the camps will remind you of how useless you are to them.

Have mercy on them, as they are not aware of how sincerely they are jeopardizing their own well being by pushing you away to remain close to those who are associated with them for their own benefits.

Hence at the end of day before you fall asleep do run through an Self Evaluation for the following:

A) Was your intentions set right before you picked up the given task?

B) Did you take care that in pursuit of achieving your task you did not hurt anyone knowingly?

C) Did you think of your loved ones, that is your parents, spouse & kids before jumping into whatever action?

D) Were you able to have complete control over your pride & ego before you made every decision for the day?

Beyond this there is absolutely no need to look within, NO MATTER whatever you are subjected to, anyone & in fact everyone who is not ready to see your level of self evaluation, not mature enough to read your intentions, not able to appreciate your values, not ready to acknowledge your version of perception, let them rest in peace with their pieces!!!

Do not allow any self doubts.

Do not infuse any feelings of unworthiness.

Do not seek any validation from those who are doomed.

Do not deliberate on any outcome, observe & let everyone else be worried about their own self evaluation & evolution.

It needs one to be at a very high level of self realization to be able to remain sincere, genuine, truthful & authentic in every quarter of their life & if you think you have either or all of these attributes & virtues, you need to learn to fall in love with yourself & your solitude!

All the best.