Undisputed Realities of a Modern Life

 Undisputed Realities of a Modern Life

No preface required, straight to the points:

1) Life will continue to revolve around your emotional actions, reactions & inactions equally.

2) The number of perceptions for any given aspect is directly proportional to the human population on the planet.

3) The probability of anything happening is always going to be one out of all that was envisaged. Everyone is a wizard.

4) When you start giving time, attention, care, love & so on, you start becoming enlightened.

5) One must fail and learn, & then learn how to fail again.

6) At any given point in time, there will be at least 2 to 3 people in your circle & around you that will love you unconditionally, identify them & treasure them.

7) At any given point in time, there will be at least 2 to 3 people in your circle & around you that are intimidated by your existence, identify them & love them unconditionally.

8) When an experienced person is speaking, shut up, just shut up & listen carefully, or be prepared to regret it forever.

9) You will be hated by those whom you have seen without their mask.

10) Once the mask is down, no matter how hard one may try, things will never go back to how they were before when the mask was still on.

11) Don't get surprised as you witness that people will live their entire life to impress strangers & disappoint their near & dear ones.

12) One will get hurt more by their expectations than the actions of those whom they trusted.

13) Learning is very important in life, but unlearning is what will make life meaningful & blissful.

14) Overthinking is creativity wasted or not channelized properly.

15) Whenever you find yourself running after something, it is going to make you chase it harder & for longer, while at the same point in time someone or something is already running after you & chasing you harder, but you aren't able to look at them.

16) Everyone you interact with is a full package, selling & buying will be inevitable, trade carefully.

17) Prayers won't make your problems go away, or not invite someone else to take over your consequences, it will help you to focus on making the right decision.

18) Everyone's existence is profound enough to change the course of human evolution, it's just that one has to realize their own potentials.

19) You are accountable to all your actions & inactions, irrespective of your admission to them.

20) You are not accountable for how others think, live & make their choices, expecting others to follow your moral compass is self deceiving. 

21) One will lie to themselves more than they must have ever lied to others, because they live by what makes them comfortable & happy.

22) Letting go & let it be, are poles apart, letting go comes after the offense is picked, it will be hurtful, let it be, is that you are indifferent.

23) Trauma based reactions & characters based on generational conditioning have prevailed since time immemorial, either one may carry them or may get victimized by interacting with the one that is carrying them.

24) Loving someone or something will always bring about the most beautiful transformations in one's life.

25) You will always be loved for the way you are able to love them, yes not necessarily they will or can love you in the same ways.

26) Expectation will forever remain the mother of all pain, sufferings & miseries in one's life.

27) Laws of physics defy the laws of attractions, you do not attract anything by focusing on them, you just remain focused on the path to get there.

28) Returns on any investments is directly proportional to the amount of risk involved in it.

29) Success is earned only by hard work, commitment & dedication, whereas the smartness must be used to prioritize the latter three.

30) Confronting alternative views & opinions projected & presented by others is the easiest way to get discredited for your genuine intensions.

31) Suggestions, advice & proactiveness works well in your favor only when it is being given to those that are seeking it desperately.

32) Nature is the greatest teacher ever, it speaks without talking, one has to learn to observe it to be able to hear it clearly.

33) Your reasoning skills are shaped & nurtured by your fears & failures you may have experienced in your life.

34) Unlearning is a skill that can help one to remain happy from within & without remaining dependable on anyone else for their happiness.

35) Dopamine effects of joy & happiness are going to remain short lived, compared to the memories of trauma of emotional pain & suffering.

36) Generally we speak & talk more than we listen, likewise we think more than we read or write.

37) Everyone of us is going to remain toxic in one or another way to others & as well as to thy self.

38) We might get into alignment of many good things & habits at some point in time, but we may always keep deviating from it.

39) At least once in a lifetime we all must have experienced & practiced, selfishness, greed, biasedness, jealousy, criticism, & every such other attributes that are termed as unjust & immoral.

40) We will continue to exist in the memories of every individual with whom we have had brief emotional interaction & prolonged everyday dealings, but the duration of those memories might be of less then 5 to 15 minutes, & it will be specifically about how we made them feel.

41) Those who hate us will remember us more & for a longer period of time then those who love us & care for us.

42) The giver & taker paradox is as real as the Sun & the moon in the sky, once a giver will always remain a giver & once a taker will always remain the taker. They both enjoy & have their dose of dopamine in what they are good at.

43) You will get 10 to 20% of what you give, time, efforts, money, initiatives, support, love & care all of it, because you know how it feels not to have it, you will end up giving it all more & more.

44) Your value around the people you are surrounded by is directly proportional to their usefulness, it has nothing to do with your intentions, skills, experience or knowledge. You might be a PhD but yet useless for everyone if you cannot give them what they want from you.

45) You will be judged for all the good deeds you have performed for others & not for them, in other words you will be judged not for your good deeds but for what you were unable to do.

46) 99.99% are going to remain devoid of introspection, they are never wrong & hence are always right, don't dare to become their mirror.

47) Respect, Status, Prestige, all are hoaxes in real time, at the third generation no commoner will ever be remembered for either of them.

48) We are naturally drawn into the quest of looking at what is missing rather than to cherish & enjoy for all that is available.

49) Your personal & professional relationship experiences will always remain sweet & blissful only if you have learned the art of "let them be"

50) There is no particular purpose of life, other than to just harness the experience of the world around & creations of the Creator Himself!

51) You are always going to remain an option, in personal as well as professional life, your love for both will determine if you are 1st option or not.