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Cherished Vs. Hated

  Cherished Vs. Hated A very intrusive subject that once in a while everyone must have experienced it within their personal as well as professional circles. A lot must have been said & written on how to think and act so as to get celebrated, but in the times of universal deficit of truthfulness to self & others, it is equally important how to think & act so that one may not get hated for trying to lead a life based on values & virtues. Nevertheless, not everyone is always cherished or even hated all the time. But mostly it goes by the act they are putting up in front of the kind of audience they are entertaining. So it means that one has to master the art of communicating their thoughts, ideas & opinions based on where & whom they are sharing them with. And in order to make either of these to sell well, one has to learn how to read their audience, understand their needs, evaluate their expectations & give an extraordinary performance to entertain them, w...

Who can be Trusted & who should be watched out for?

  Who can be Trusted & who should be watched out for? A very intrusive question if one is on the opposite side of the same. Let us get to the point. 1) The one who values you & respects you behind your back CAN BE TRUSTED, obviously because the respect & value they are giving is to earn your trust, nevertheless consistency matters. 2) The one who is bold enough to let you know exactly the opposite of anything & everything you are willing to hear, MUST BE TRUSTED, they might not mean to hurt you or harm you by giving you those harsh facts, again the person must not be all season critics of you. 3) YES MINISTERS are the gravediggers, anyone who is constantly agreeing to anything & everything that you say & do are your worst enemies, CANNOT BE TRUSTED, keeping them around is like feeding a snake that is growing larger enough to swallow you. 4) Then there will be those who will think for you, check upon you, understand you & are always more than willing to g...

GDP - Gross Domestic Product & Feasibility for Business

  GDP - Gross Domestic Product & Feasibility for Business  We keep hearing about the word more often than before, that is because even if the GDP of any Nation is calculated at a macro level, it always has & will have profound micro level impact on every individual. While trying to practice the "Observer" theory, along the journey I saw 100s of shops & business outlets that were into essentials, commodities, durables, luxury items, furniture & so on, and the thought of GDP flashed immediately. Because all those business outlets were filled & stacked with goods that might be in millions of USD. What is the present day business model, that is making the said GDP keep ticking or grow? From an individual view point: One, they have some capital & understanding of any kind of business, they venture into it & start earning their bread, if they are lucky enough & have the courage to take calculated risk they will grow over the years....

Unflinching Observer - The most Celebrated One!

  Unflinching Observer - The Most Celebrated One! Let it be & you will flourish in all the quarters. Everyone's life revolves around their respective "Circle of Influence".  The better we understand things that we can control & things that we cannot control, the more we become Celebrated Ones! To live & lead a life that is peaceful within & outside, there are some basic facts that we have to constantly keep reminding ourselves.  Just like how passionately we train & tone our body physically, we have to equally consider keeping our mind, heart & internal health in shape. A lot has been written & explained about how our personality or image varies amongst our family members, friends & colleagues. All of them may have had different sets of experiences from us & even if most of them may eventual know & understand who we are, how we think & act, there won't be even one single person who can claim to know abou...

Dopamine, Elixir or Addiction?

  Dopamine In layman language, Dopamine is a medical term used for the chemicals that our brain produces when we are happy or we achieve something, basically a state that leaves everybody in a good mood & makes one feel better within. What are some things that trigger within us this preparation of Dopamine? There might be different things like * Taking a selfie & posting on Insta. * Winning a lottery * Going out for shopping or doing online shopping * Being appreciated in either ways * Achieving targets, objectives * Going for a dinner date * Travelling for a vacation All of the above resources at some point in time might have been used to get that shot of Dopamine are widely known, discussed & understood, but what is fascinating to understand is that there are some least acknowledged & realized activities that we use to keep ourselves busy with, they too are Dopamine addiction drives.  * Hitting the Gym * Morning or evening walks * Going for a long drive * Cha...

Look Beyond

  Look Beyond During all of our interactions with various individuals at work or in family & friend circles, we must have trained ourselves to look into the actions & reactions of everyone with our own idea & identity that we may have formed about everyone of them. And mostly our reactions will follow our last experience or impression that we have had from these individuals. This in a long run leaves no room for observation, corrections & upgrades in our own perceptions about others & unfortunately that goes for us as well, people around us will treat us from all those experiences that we have helped them to have with us. But in reality, any action from anyone is most likely to remain circumstantial, it can be a totally different kind of situation that they must be going through & hence their actions may also remain unfamiliar to us. Yet most of the time we may end up responding to them or reacting from our past experience with them....

Paracetamol Effects !!!!!

  Paracetamol, Reason for any  Organization  to brew System Cancer! Professionally we all know what is means by the term "quick fixer" approach. Rationally trying to understand the characteristics of Paracetamol, it is meant to help reduce the rising body temperature, irrespective of whether it is a fever that is caused due to malaria, viral infection, injury, cold or whatever other medical conditions, it is just meant to instantly control the fever. And we more than often see these Paracetamol approaches in our daily professional life. Not all the complications or concerns in our daily professional dealings may require rigorous analysis & investment time & resources to put lasting solution to them, as there can be many that may only need quick fixing but then it is equally important to understand when one of them will truly needs a quick fixing & later on any permanent resolutions can be implemented. Underlying situations matter the most. What happens to...